Names in Ancient Greece

The_Three Fates - Paul ThumannThe first stages of dreaming up a new story, for me, usually start with the question, “Where?”

When I wrote Troll-magic, the answer to that question was, “The enchanting place I see in the paintings by Kay Nielsen.” I had to invent that world, of course, and it became my North-lands.

Fate Door began a little more strangely. I was trying a writerly trick known to spark stories a little different from what a writer normally comes up with.

The trick?

Look around the room you are in. Pick an item that catches your attention. Use it to generate a story.

I’m not going to tell you the object that caught my eye. It would act as a spoiler, and I definitely don’t want to spoil my own story for you!

However, the object very quickly led me to my usual question, “Where?” The where was the cottage of the three fates. And the who was the sea nymph working as the fates’s handmaiden.

forest cottage

Once I got that far, I needed a name for my sea nymph. I decided to look amongst the names of sea nymphs mentioned in Greek mythology. There are hundreds of them! The nymphs in Poseidon’s harem. The nymphs in Tethys’ retinue. The nymphs who reared Hera as a child. And on and on. I made a list of the ones I liked best.

Most of them had meanings, many of the meanings quite similar. There was Romy ‘dew of the sea,’ Inara ‘ray of light,’ and Marilla ‘shining sea.’ But the one I chose was Nerine, meaning simply ‘sea nymph.’

Since the first scenes of my novel took place in the cottage of the fates, I needed names for the fates, a good idea of what the cottage looked like, and then I was ready to write.

Gregale_cliffs_lampedusaI wrote the events in the cottage, and I discovered that I needed to take Nerine back into her memories and write about her childhood in the Middle Sea (the Mediterranean). So long as she stayed within the bosom of her family, her first name alone was enough. But when she ventured further afield, I needed more.

Since the Greek gods and their attendant nymphs were creations of the Hellene culture, I decided that my people of the sea would follow Hellene naming conventions. Which meant I needed to know what they were. My research took some persistence. I didn’t immediately find what I needed. Finally, after much digging, when my frustration was rising, I found the information I sought.

It described the Athenian convention, and the Athenian way seemed good to me, even if other city-states might follow a different variation.

An ancient Athenian would have three names. The first was a personal given name, such as Hypatia, meaning ‘highest’ or ‘exceptional.’

The second name derived from the father’s name. Thus, ‘child of Amyntas.’ (Amyntas means ‘defender.) ‘Child of Amyntas’ would be rendered as Amyntiou.

The third name was the demotic name. That is, it indicated which deme or region of the land around Athens that the family belonged to. Thus, if the family was from Sounion, the demotic name would be Sounieus.

Which gives us Hypatia Amyntiou Sounieus.

Coral Reef

What does this mean for my heroine?

Her father’s name is Meren, and she lives in the region of Pelagie. Thus . . .

Nerine Merenou Pelagieus.

When Nerine meets Altairos’ restless older brother, Hilarion, he asks Nerine her name. She must answer in full. It would be improper not to. And my research – eventually – yielded up what she would say. 😀

For more about Nerine’s world, see:
Calendar of the Ancient Mediterranean
Ground Looms
Lapadoússa, an isle of Pelagie
Merchant Ships of the Ancient Mediterranean
Garb of the Sea People
Measurement in Ancient Greece
Horse Sandals and the 4th Century BC
Knossos, Model for Altairos’ Home

Photo credit for the woodland surrounding the cottage above: Forest by Ian Britton, used under a Creative Commons license from



5 thoughts on “Names in Ancient Greece

  1. Hi, Nerine.

    Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt here. Don’t know what Ehrhardt actually means (sorry, I found it once, lost it again), but I have a picture of me at the corner of Ehrhardtstrasse (Ehrhardt St.) in Munich – long time ago.

    Place of husband, maybe?

    • LOL!

      Okay, let’s try this for me.

      Jessica Wiliou Virginieus. An entirely different set of initials: J W V. Jessica, child of Wil, from Virginia. 😀

      Sticking with what I’ve got – Jessica Michele Ney-Grimm – yields ‘Wealthy One’ ‘Who is like God?’ ‘New’ ‘The Fierce One.’ Quite the collection!

    • Okay, we all know my middle name should be ‘Curiosity.’ So I went hunting and found on RootsWeb that Ehrhardt means ‘strong honor.’

      So…Alicia, butcher’s daughter, bearing strong honor in her heart?

      I also checked the meaning of Alicia, and – oh, my, goodness! – four different choices, depending on the country of origin: sweet, honest, noble, or truth!

      • Will store the information away in my address book – that way I won’t lose it.

        Ehrhardt=strong honor (that sounds familiar)
        Alicia=sweet, honest, noble, or truth (quite a mouthful)

        Butcher was translated from the Hungarian Mezaros (which means, of course, butcher in Hungarian – or so they tell me). An orthopedic surgeon in the family, one of my cousins, changed his family name back to Mezaros – he didn’t want to be Dr. Butcher, not in HIS specialty. My uncle Paul IS Dr. Butcher – he’s a dentist.

        And my sister Jackie in Mexico is actually Dr. Butcher, too, because, she tells me, in Mexico your professional degrees use your maiden name.

        • Fantastic stories about the adventures your kin have had with Butcher. I sympathize with Dr. Mezaros. 😀 Thanks for sharing!

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